I'm not sure if you are familiar with the life of Joseph in the bible? I learned many years ago about Joseph and his endeavor in life no matter what came his way! He never had a victim mentality, which inspired me when I first heard his story! This is a short version! He was only 17, and his father loved him very much because he was given to him at an old age! So his father made him a richly ornamented robe, this did not go over good with his brothers, they hated him!
At this young age Joseph had a 2 dreams, which God had given to him. He made the mistake of sharing them with his family. This dream was implying that one day, Joseph would be in a position of authority,and reigning! His brothers took it the wrong way because of what they had towards Joseph, so they hated him all the more! They plotted to have him removed from the family, so while they were out one day the brothers threw him into a cistern in the desert. Taking his robe off that his father had made him, they decided not to kill him, but sold him to some Ishmaelites. And Joseph's life changed! It changed on the outside because of circumstances, but it did not change what Joseph had on the inside of him, the dreams God had given him! THE BLESSING, was going to bring it to life! Joseph didn't give up!
I am really condensing this story, but through his life of rejection, betrayal, being imprisoned, accused of raping his masters wife, he never gave up! He knew his God, what God showed him, and he trusted him no matter what happened! Joseph had favor!. Genesis 39:2- The Lord was with Joseph and he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. When the master saw that Lord was with him and that the Lord gave him success in everything he did, Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned. From the time he put him in charge of his household and of all that he owned the Lord BLESSED the household of the Egyptian because of Joseph. THE BLESSING OF THE LORD WAS ON EVERYTHING Potiphar had, both in the house and in the field.
So no matter what happens in life we can still have results like Joseph, the attitude must be one of, don't give up, don't take on a victim mentality, keep believing your dreams the Lord has placed in your heart! We must be obedient to God through the trials that come our way and keep praising God!
In the end Joseph was given authority and put in charge of Egypt, he was governor of the land, he was thirty years old when he entered the service of Pharaoh king of Egypt. In the end Joseph's family did end up coming to Egypt due to a famine in the land. They had no idea about his life and where he ended up, those dreams did come to pass in Josephs life, and it was to save the lives of many, that is why God raised Joseph up!
Joseph never gave up,he never allowed unforgiveness towards his family, he never did any wicked thing before his God! He trusted God all those years, and believed God was looking out for him.
The moral of the story for me is don't become a victim in life, always be happy for someone when they are blessed, rejoice with them, your next! Trust God if he has shown you something for your life, Joseph at the young age of 17 when given those dreams, had no idea he would of been governor one day! Don't let time get in the way, God has not forgotten you, and DON'T GIVE UP! He Loves you.